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Caring for your period

Featured content from A Girl's Guide to Puberty and Periods: Caring for your period (Chapter 4).

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In this excerpt from A Girl’s Guide to Puberty and Periods, you’ll learn about the different products you can use for your period and how to track your cycle.

So many period products!

Pro tips: What’s in your bag?

Pads

How to put on a pad

Tampons

Period underwear

Menstrual cups

How will I know when I’m getting my period?

Have more questions?

So many period products!

It can be confusing knowing what product to use! How do you know what type to choose? The next section has some basic facts about the most common types. But remember, there is no right or wrong answer. It’s about what’s most comfortable for you!

Pro tips: What’s in your bag?

Your period can be irregular! When a girl starts menstruating, her period may not come as regularly for the first year or two. That’s normal! But it does mean you need to be prepared. Here are some tips from a few girls about what they like to do:

“I always carry an extra product — or two — just in case! You never know when you (or a friend!) might need one. I like to use pads, so I keep a couple extra in one of my backpack’s pockets.“

“My period isn’t ‘regular’ yet, but tracking my cycle on a calendar helps me estimate when it will start!”

“I often get cramps when I’m on my period. Sometimes I go lay down on a cot in the nurse’s office if the cramps are really bad. (They might also have extra products in case you forget!) I also keep my favorite snack in my backpack for when I’m feeling down.”

A backpack with period-care products spilling out: a mini calendar with a highlighter, a chocolate bar, pads, pain-relief medicine, tampons and wipes.

It helps to carry extra pads or tampons with you during your period. Other girls suggest carrying a snack, a bottle of pain-relief pills (get this from an adult!) and a period tracker.

Pads

Panty liner or pad?

A pad is thicker and more absorbent, so it can hold more liquid (blood) than a panty liner. Panty liners can be worn on light bleeding days, or when wearing a tampon to give extra protection.

Thin or medium or thick? Wings or no wings?

For lighter flow days, you can wear a thin pad. For heavier flow days, you can wear a medium or thick pad. For sleeping, you might prefer a thicker overnight pad.

Some girls prefer pads with wings, which wrap around the bottom of your underwear, but it is completely up to you!

How long should you wear it?

On average, for two to three hours. When your period is lighter, change every six to eight hours. Some people may have a heavier period flow and need to change more often.

What about disposal?

Wrap pads in tissue, a product wrapper or toilet paper and put into the trash can. Don’t try to flush a pad down the toilet because it might get clogged.

A hand holds a wrapped period pad. Four illustrations of pad options are to the right — the last two have wings. Each illustration has water droplets below to represent the absorbency, with the panty liner having one droplet (lowest absorbency) and the thick pad having four droplets (highest absorbency).

How to put on a pad

  1. Peel it!
Peel the pad or panty liner off of the wrapper — just like a sticker!
  2. Stick it!
One side of the pad is sticky! Stick it to the bottom area of your underwear sticky side down.
  3. Wing it!
If your pad has sticky “wings,” wrap them around the bottom of your underwear. They help hold it in place!

Tampons

Light or regular or super?

You can try them all and see which is most comfortable! Most girls start with “light.” If your blood flow is very heavy, you might want to change to the regular or super sizes.

Applicator or no applicator?

This is up to you! You can try both and see which you like best.

How long should you wear it?

On average, for two to three hours. When your period is lighter, change every six to eight hours. Some people may have a heavier period flow and need to change more often. It’s best not to wear one for longer than eight hours though.

What about disposal?

The same as pads! Wrap them in tissue, a product wrapper or toilet paper and put into the trash can. Remember: NEVER flush them down the toilet!

A hand holds various tampon options. Three illustrations of tampon options are to the right: a tampon without an applicator, a tampon with a cardboard applicator and a tampon with a plastic applicator.

Period underwear

What are they?

Period underwear is special underwear that has an absorbent material in it to soak up blood. You can wash and reuse them!

What size?

The same size as your other underwear! They come in different fits and styles — so select one you find most comfortable!

What thickness?

Up to you! If you have heavier blood flow, try thicker options.

How long should you wear them?

Depends on your blood flow! Change once or twice a day. To wash them, read the instructions provided as some can go directly into a washing machine and others should be washed by hand.

Purple period underwear.

Menstrual cups

Some people like to use menstrual cups. You can use a cup over and over. Similar to tampons, cups are inserted into the vagina. Most cups are reusable. Ask an adult or look at the product box for more information.

A pink menstrual cup.

How will I know when I’m getting my period?

It’s hard to know the exact day when your period will come. There is no magic ball to forecast exactly when it will happen!

One way to try to know is to track on a calendar.

Mark the first day of your period and then count forward 28 days. Your next period will start soon! Remember that cycles can range from 21 to 35 days. You’ll get better at predicting over time!

There are also many apps that can help you with tracking, but you may need an adult to help you.

A paper calendar and a phone showing different app options.

Track your cycle on a calendar or use an app on your phone.

Have more questions?

That’s totally OK! This is a confusing time. Talk to someone who you trust! It’s a good idea to talk to someone who has been having their period for years like your mother, older sister, aunt, teacher, cousin, older friend or school nurse. They will have lots of good advice for you!

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Source: 

Marni Sommer, DrPH, MSN, RN, Professor at the Mailman School of Public Health, Columbia University and co-authors. A Girl’s Guide to Puberty and Periods. Grow and Know, 2021.

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